Friday, March 28, 2008
A tug on my strings
On night shift the busiest part of the shift is at 6am. we hang the IV fluids, clean up a little, pass meds, and make sure all our charting is done. I was doing vital sings when I felt a little tug on my scrubs (well the strings that tie in the back to make them a little cuter). I turned around and saw the biggest, cutest (Sunday-boy, 2 years old) eyes starring back at me still holding onto my strings. So for the next 20 minutes held onto my strings as I went on with my nursing duties. I had to walk a bit slower, due to his 2 year old lenght of legs, but it was worth it.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Problem of the attitude
It would be nice to be able to to go a meal and not hear someone complain about the abundant food that is on the line (hello look out the window, we are in AFRICA. We eat more in one week than most families eat in a month). It would be nice to work one shift on the ward with our thinking how nice it would be to transfer to the Starbucks Cafe.
In reality nothing on the ship has changed, nothing has gotten any worse, it is just me. I am tired and obviously having an attitude problem. So today I went to the ward to pick up something that I left there last night and they were having worship. Man, it gets me everytime. I was quite content wallowing in my own self pitty, but when you see the Liberians worship the self pitty somes to a skreeching hault. Some are patients that had life changing surgery and others are translaters, but they all are Liberians that worship the Lord with such Joy. So for now, I will stop with the pity party and move on and try to have some perspective.
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Easter Brunch & Eggs
We planned and experimented with slow cooking a 'dry air' or coddled/poached egg 'if you will' for you this morning for brunch. We pre-tested it and the process worked. The process is not really new, just new here...its another one of my lovely food science things that I make everybody in the galley participate in.
I started the warmers in the dining room early at about 65 degrees Celsius, Tim went down to start the eggs in 2 inch pans and turn the temperature down to 60 degrees Celsius. That was at 8:45am, warmers were on, and hot.
Now about 10am Peter came up stairs to tell us the eggs were completely raw! What? HOW?
I guess that will remain a mystery...somebody turned both warmers off probably almost immediately after we left the eggs in there, yes, both sides.
So who was it? Was it sabotage? (certainly not, right?) Was it dining room staff? (they'll never admit it now) Or could it have been the duty officer when he comes thru and tends to turn things off? (certainly they would not come thru and do that on Easter Morning Brunch!)
Ahhh, such is life. Maybe we will try it again one day for a regular breakfast...oh they looked so good peaking up at us like a daisy the day we tested them, cooked so slow the whites where solid but not rubbery, the yolk shiny like the sun a vibrant yellow orange...
We might have been able to recoup a loss but unfortunately our clock stopped at 9:25 and we were putting along thinking all was making good time and we could pull off some more eggs in time...but no, it was really about 9:55am! I wear a watch but I hadn't really looked at it since I sent Tim down to put eggs in the warmers.
And just when I thought I could live with myself, one of my Hollandaise Sauce 'broke' (separated) and I was afraid it would be took for cheese sauce (and I think it was).
So I thank you all for your standing ovation and hope you thoroughly enjoyed yourselves on the Lord's day, celebrating Jesus Resurrection.
Friday, March 21, 2008
Local Workers
This is Ophelia, one of our ward cooks...she always has a great smile. I don't think she understands my English most of the time so she just nods and laughs.
Daniel works in Salads and he too has a great smile, I caught him not paying attention while eating his lunch in the galley.
By my side, By my side
When the surgery is over and they wake up from their pain meds, we ask them "Are you dry?". As a nurse, this is such a hard question to ask, because so often the answer is not what we ant to hear. When they shake their head and say " I am wet", my mind starts to think about how they will have to go home once again to their village and potentially be shunned because of their problem. But, when the answer is "Yes I am dry", we all rejoice. Actually, the Liberians tend to jump up and praise the Lord with a song, when they have been blessed by Him. Yesterday when the answer to that fateful question was "dry, dry, dry", she jumped out of her bed and sang " I have a big, big God-O and He's always by my side. By my side, by my side."
On Tuesday I went to the Dress Ceremony, which is a time of celebration and commitment for the ladies that have had successful surgery. They each get a new dress that represents their new life. They each talk about their journey and each lead (by lead I mean sing at the top of their lungs and dance around) us in a song that is relevant to them. One of the things that stuck out the most is one of the ladies was talking about how she stopped going to church because she would leak all over the bench and would start to smell. She then looked at Dr. Steve and said "Thank you Dr. Steve for giving me the gift of being Dry. Now I can go back to Church. Your God will be my God."
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Baby
Her name is Baby, yes that is her real name. She is a shy, small, 15-year-old young lady. She came into our hospital early this week for surgery on her jaw. Most of the left side of her face has disappeared over the last 2 years due to a disease called Noma.
'Noma is a type of gangrene that destroys mucous membranes of the mouth and other tissues. It occurs in malnourished children in areas of poor cleanliness. The exact cause is unknown but may be due to bacteria called fusospirochetal organisms. This disorder most often occurs in young, severely malnourished children between the ages of 2 and 5. Often they have had an illness such as measles, scarlet fever, tuberculosis, cancer, or immunodeficiency. Risk factors include Kwashiorkorand other forms of severe protein malnutrition, poor sanitation and poor cleanliness, disorders such as measles or leukemia, and living in an underdeveloped country. Noma causes sudden, rapidly worsening tissue destruction. The gums and lining of the cheeks become inflamed and develop ulcers. The ulcers develop foul-smelling drainage, causing breath odor and an odor to the skin.'
When Baby entered into D ward she held her head down, her shoulders were slumped, and did not make eye contact. My first interaction did not make us fast friends. I had to start an IV and she later told me we were not friends because friends don't stab each other. SO I spent the rest of the evening trying to win her friendship. I brought her crayons and we colored together, but she lost interest. So I brought her a slinky and she played with it for about 5 minutes then she again lost interest. So as my last-ditch effort I brought her an etch a sketch. As I showed her how it works she smiled and said "Thanks my friend".
Baby went to surgery and they made her a new left side of her face. It is quite remarkable actually. She came in with no confidence and left with her shoulders straight, her head held high, and a beautiful symmetrical face, and I... gained a friend.
Lasagna
We don't currently have any ricotta or cottage cheese to use in our lasagna so I use a bechamel sauce with parmesan cheese added. Also, we use the standard Mozzarella cheese.
Sometimes the 'white' layer tends to disappear altogether when cooking the lasagna except for maybe seeing some stretchy white stuff here and there. You would probably be interested to know the classic lasagna has ricotta and bechamel sauce for the 'white' part and later people used what they liked best like cottage cheese. I prefer ricotta, but alas there is none of either.
Hope you enjoy it anyway...and zucchini was in the veggie one that was offered.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
NO FOOD? NOT TRUE!!!
I have tried to be political correct, humble, organization conscience, and a little removed when maintaining this blog...it really is my own personal blog that is linked to the AFM intranet for those of you who enjoy being able to actually look at a dinner(supper) menu for the week.
But today multiple complaints were aired about food running out at 12:30 for lunch today...to which I say is UNTRUE! Really I don't want to beat this dead topic into the ground but it is way past the limit of times it should have ever happened.
Hot food is never guaranteed for lunch, and I covered this quite well in an earlier post. And because there is food you may not personally want to eat, does not by any means translate to being out of food. If we have a lot of leftovers, then you have a lot of hot food for lunch.
AT 1pm, after the food was down in the dining room for 1 1/2 hours I received rice, snow peas, and soup back from the dining room. Cold cuts and cheese were out for lunch along with options from salads, and the minimum of peanut butter and bread is always out! And that my friend is what I have been conveying to crew since Mercy Ships has set this standard (it has been the same practice on the CBM, ANA, & here on the AFM). The only place that it may be different is at the IOC.
I have also noticed that the dining room staff are the recipients of most of the complaints & criticism. This is unfair to them and it is not right.
Please adjust the condition of your heart to the reason you came to serve and move forward from there...so somebody else can get to the peanut butter!
Ciatta went home....
Monday, March 17, 2008
Put your hands on your hips....
Multi-purpose tubs
I stole a few pictures from Michelle Zeller (her blog is mzellerafrica.blogspot.com she does palliative care). Just because the pictures were so cute. (yes, this is still Tyrone talking).
We have several of these tubs that we use in the galley, colored just like the one you see here...we use them for defrosting meats, marinating meats, making salads in bulk (coleslaw, macaroni, tuna... those kinds of salads), and a myriad of other things. Here in Liberia, well as you can plainly see it works as a good bathtub for babies!
I am sure this is what I would have looked like as a child if I was west African and grew up in Liberia~ (pssst, I still eat like that)
This is baby George eating his rice. How cute is that?
The Liberian Handshake
An example of the Liberian handshake. This is used whenever greeting or meeting people. Mostly a simple handshake and the snapping of fingers is what I use.
1 - grasp the hand of your counterpart:
2 - slide into a thumb-to-thumb grip:
3 - pull back to clutch the finger tips of your counterpart:
4 - release with a loud snap of the middle fingers:
Note that the handshake can be abbreviated by jumping straight from the quick hand shake to the snap.
Reminds me of a couple of handshakes in my old neighborhood...
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Pictures of Henry
Henry spends most of the day just sitting around waiting for the day to pass, but during the week he goes up to deck seven and plays football (soccer) as his Occupational Therapy. I went up the other day and we were teammates and pretty much won by a lot.
Thursday, March 13, 2008
A Walk To Beautiful...
Stephanie and I both saw a movie here on board that will soon be playing on PBS in the states, which I will soon give you information about. http://www.walktobeautiful.com/ - http://www.fistulafoundation.org/movies/screening.html We were able to view and see the movie because of Dr. Steve Arrowsmith (who is currently here on board). Bio available here at this link: http://www.globalhealth.org/pop_ups/events/steven_arrowsmith.html
We would both strongly recommend you see this movie, it is not Mercy Ships affiliated except for Dr. Steven being Vice President for International Program Development for the Worldwide Fistula Fund, and we do these same surgeries here on board the ship for the women of West Africa and in a clinic in Sierra Leone. This movie will definitely help open your eyes to life changing operations that we have eradicated altogether in richer parts of the world. Fistula what? What is that?
I (me Tyrone, being the guy that I am) was even moved by the emotion and power that this one surgery or hope that these woman have can mean so much...so its not just for the women to watch or understand! And even how sometimes it takes more than one surgery!
Broadcast Premiere
- NOVA on PBS
May 13, 2008 - Check your local listings or go to pbs.org for details
Cooking Teams (#2)
If you missed the first installment of Cooking Teams you can catch up here.
My role as Chief Cook/Lead Chef (the title really does seem to change on a whim) sounds good on paper. The reason I say that is because on paper my hours are from 8 to 5 Monday thru Friday (Riiiiiiiight). I guess it could be in certain circumstances or if I really didn't care and wanted to get on with life outside the kitchen, but I am one of those people who love it. I usually stay hanging around the kitchen thru to 6 or 630pm just to see things thru or just do some recipe research or the small 'pushing paper' part of my job by creating menu's or questions to bother my boss about, he loves it. (I am being sarcastic)
In the past we had some special events, functions, and dinners which usually involved me working on the weekends, and if you are actually on the ship when are you really ever off from emergencies and unknowns? Believe me, a lot of unknowns or surprise things need to be done that involve guess what? That's it, the galley!
If you remember me talking about the earlier schedules of the cooking teams in my last post you will see that my schedule has me working with both teams thru out the week (remember team Fried Chicken and team Watermelon?). Oh and by the way, I named the teams not to be cliche (ok maybe partly because I thought it would be funny) but because I actually like both of those foods allot...although I try to keep my fried chicken intake down for all the obvious reasons. Being able to consistently to work with both teams on and off thru the week really helps me to keep a good handle on things and to see both strengths and weaknesses in each team. And that in turn helps me to know how to menu plan, clean, cook, and get organized in the kitchen/galley depending on the character and quirks of the team working.
Now that most of the special events or food functions have passed away I may actually have weekends off...BUT the joy in that is now I can start 'hanging out' or signing up for other projects and events. This weekend I have signed up to go out Saturday to help work on construction projects for a local orphanage, Stephanie has also signed up for a totally different project than mine and she will get to visit with handicapped kids (& maybe some adults) at a home.
Hope in the Hall
VVF stands for vesico-vaginal fistula. During prolonged labor pressure from the head of a fetus can cause internal tissue to become necrotic (dead). A fistula develops between the bladder and vagina and causes a constant leak of urine. More severe fistulae may include the rectum and feces will leak as well.
Western medicine has eliminated this condition in the developed world. But in Africa, at least 2 million women are leaking.
They leak because girls are forced to marry before they have fully developed pelvic bones. They leak because their bodies are malnourished. They leak because maternal care is not accessible. Often, a woman will endure five to six days of unattended labor. Her efforts produce a dead baby and a solemn memorial. It is insane to me that 1 out of 16 children die instead of live during the birthing process in west Africa.
Last night as these women, with their catheter bags in their hands, walked down the Hall of the Africa Mercy Hospital singing with a smile on their faces "I have hope, I have hope, I have hope in Jesus", I was reminded that I have a lot to learn.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Ciatta
Around 5pm we heard that we were getting an ICU patient with a Dental infection (big surprise). She came in and was having a hard time breathing. All the Doctors came in and we got her ready for emergent surgery.
We went to dinner and when we got back the patient was on her way back. Her name is Ciatta, she has 4 children and a husband for 13 years, that loves her so much that when he saw her after surgery he threw himself on the floor out of despair. Ciatta came back from the OR still intubated ( breathing tube in her nose and on a ventalator). We got her settled by putting her on sedation meds ans morphine for pain control. We placed all the tubes that are normal for a intubated patient. KimAna got to see a lot.
The next day we both came back bright and early for morning shift. Ciatta looked much better. By late morning we started taking out all the tubes we placed the night before, including the breathing tube. Ciatta made a wonderful recovery. She sat up in a chair and was even transferred out of the ICU.
At the end of the day I was blessed by Ciatta. I got to see the whole process including the recovery, what a blessing.
Yogurt!
Yogurt is like oatmeal, if it's done it will be a volunteer that will have to work around our limitations. I know maybe you have been in our kitchen/galley...if you have, you see our galley is even smaller than the ANA with more people to feed.
Last I heard someone was supposed to take over for the last person who was making it volunteer-ely (if that's a word) doing it on the weekend out of the way of the cooking teams & dining room working hours.
Also, we (galley/dining room) are not in charge of any part of it and can not be pulled away from our work hours to assist you, every working person in food services is precious and their time during work is precious...if you would like to be that volunteer you need to contact a previous volunteer that can show you how to make it, take care of it, and overall be totally responsible for it within the basic guidelines AND permissions for galley and dining room use. (because the warmers that are used for the yogurt are in the dining room).
Otherwise, you are free to enjoy the yogurt cups that we supply from time to time...no it may not have that 'fresh made' yogurt nutritional health, but it does taste good every now and then when you really start missing that yogurt taste!
Sunday, March 9, 2008
B is for Baby
Saturday, March 8, 2008
Cooking Teams
Then we have 2 or 3 people on salad team which usually runs 8-5 Mon-Fri. But our cooking teams, of which we have two, work 2 on-2 off- 3 on- 2 off- 2 on- 3 off...confused? It looks like this. Team one works Monday and Tuesday, then Friday, Saturday, Sunday, then Wednesday and Thursday of the following week...that's a two week schedule. Team two works the alternating days. Their schedule on each team starts at 8 in the morning and ends about 7 at night. Oh its not that bad if you think about it...two fifteen minute breaks one at 10am and another at 3pm(approximately) then usually an hour for lunch and an hour for dinner.
We also have devotions (devo's for short) or some kind of meetings every morning Mon-Fri so that is another half hour deducted from actual physical working time...and they do work hard! But if you subtract the breaks, lunch and dinner break, and devo's you eliminate 3 hours from the 11 hour shift which brings it nicely back to an actual 8 hours physical work time. The stress and heat of it can can make it feel like 12 hours straight sometimes.
In addition to that at least one person is dedicated to being ward cook on each team (cook for local patients on the ward) because if the locals ate our food it would probably give them some extra grief adjusting to a new diet so we have a local person cook local food for the locals, sounds like it makes sense doesn't it? (at least locally right?). Also a dedicated dishwasher (this usually takes two sometimes) and two storeman because a crew and local workers of this number/multitude eat a lot of food and we don't have the privilege of ordering food every week from a local supplier who can meet our demand. So most of our stores are in months supplies stored in the bowels of the ship. Including 4 walk in freezers and a walk in cooler/fridge/reefer as well as a few upstairs (mini versions).
Back to the teams...
Instead of calling them team one and team two, lets change the name so in case they read this post/blog they won't start teasing each other about who's number one and number two.
Right now we are actually staffed right in the galley, dining room needs more workers.
Team Fried Chicken consists of the following nationalities: Ghana x2, Guinea x1, Canada x1, Australia x1, Liberia x2
Team Water Melon consists of the following nationalities: Australia x1, US x1, Ghana x1, Guinea x1, Hong Kong/Canada x1, Liberia x2
Salad Team consists of the following nationalities: US x1, England x1, Liberia x1
Storeman consists of the following nationalities: Ghana x1, Canada x1
Baker consists of: Germany x1
So you see its a very diverse group of teams I work with daily, and its constantly changing.
I'll get more into my role later on...don't want to put you to sleep all at one time.
For all the coffee lovers...
Coffee Art
There is a restaurant in Vancouver ..actually three
where they dress up the lattes.
You get to watch them create the pictures.
(thanks Carol for passing this one along!)
Thursday, March 6, 2008
Welcome to the Ward
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
Henry
I received Henry from the recovery room and he had 14 penrose drains (drains that allow the exudate to leave the body to get rid of the infection) in his mouth and chest. Over the next couple of days I spent countless hours with Henry, changing his dressing, starting IVs, giving him meds, and just trying to keep him comfortable.
On Sunday and Monday they took Henry back to the OR to clean him out again. As of Sunday morning Henry was not looking good, I was starting to think maybe we would loose him too. All of this time Henry was quiet and very stoic. But on Tuesday I came in to take care of him, I almost started to cry. Henry was sitting up in a chair, the drains in his mouth were gone. I think I actually screamed in excitement and Henry started to laugh. Woohoo!! That to me was pure joy, to see a boy that was so miserable and incredibly sick, laugh. Henry still has a long way to go. His wounds are very open and really need to heal. Please pray that Henry will have no more infection and that he will recover quickly so he can go home!!!!
Pink Meatballs, Pasta in oil or butter
The meatballs were first boiled for 20 to 30 minutes to quickly set the shape of the semi-ball form (we don't have the luxury or time of making them machine produced perfect orbs, I am sure you already know that so we will move along) and additionally to boil off and leave behind meat juice 'residue' and fats.
Then the meatballs are cooked at about 325F or 160C (roundabout proximation) for about an hour. This tightens up the structure of the meatball as well as colors it with a better roasting brown (thats a color for you to request at the paint store, roasted brown meatball - it works well with a burnt caramel, or creme brulee on the molding and trim). In addition to this it completely cooks the meatball. Then I check the temperature for at minimum for 160F (71C). Then it is held in the warmer/oven for an additional half four or more before being served on the line. Sometimes meat can be fully cooked and still appear pink, this is true with smoked meats especially.
Another example is science that most people will not accept because their upbringing or knowledge will not allow them to...that is that meat can be cooked to a varied (depends on kind and cut of meat) temperature for a certain length of time and not be well done, BUT STILL has been cooked to the appropriate specs allowed by government regulations. Which is the standard that most of the world goes by that has these health governing agencies in their country. Some exceptions are of course fowl, more specifically (in our situation) turkey and chicken which internally should/has to be 165F or 74C. Most of my specs are drawn from the food and drug administration. Here is a link if you are interested in this: http://www.cfsan.fda.gov/~dms/fttmeat.html or here http://whatscookingamerica.net/Information/MeatTemperatureChart.htm
But of course, you and I both know I couldn't have or didn't check every meatball. (laughing) Just a few in different batches.
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Pasta! Some of you may want to argue when I get done with this section but putting butter or oil in the pasta water doesn't really do what you think it does...I say its 50/50 (and food science backs me up with plenty of experimental statistics to prove it) and the experts say its 0% that oil or butter in the water actually helps the pasta not to stick together in the water. Its one of those old traditions that was handed down and taught to everyone so long its hard to change the mindset.
From my experience and all the food science books I have ever read all you need is the proper amount of water per pound of pasta, a high enough temperature for cooking it, and salt in the water (for taste, not the silly change the degree in the water explanation, because even if it did what use is 1 or 2 degrees difference?). Thats it.
I have talked to Italians, Chinese (because supposedly they had the pasta before Italians but I won't be in that argument) and worked for a 'boat load'of chefs that all agree, water and salt. Here on the ship I cook the pasta without watching it all the time. A few stirs here and there, my pasta comes out beautifully time and time again...and when I teach it to others they have the same experience, no oils or butters. No sticking.
So what does the oil do? In the water it will attach itself to the pasta but not consistently because of the moving boiling water. And then when it does it 'seals' the pasta so to speak. What is the outcome of this? Ever had that plate of pasta bolegnese or spaghetti and meatballs only to have watery sauce in the bottom of that plate? Yep thats what it did, locked the sauce out of soaking into the pasta.
Now, all that being said...I add olive oil (when available, its extra virgin 'the good stuff' right now) after the pasta is in the pan, yes it still locks out some of the sauce from attaching itself to the pasta but this is the compromise: When you are at home and want to add the pasta straight into the sauce or vise versa and eat it right away I would never use an oil or butter directly on the pasta, because the fresh cooked pasta will suck it up like a child and a milkshake...BUT when you are feeding 400 plus people that little drizzle of olive oil mixed with the remaining wetness of the noodle keeps the pasta from sticking together in big clumps while it sits on the line. So a compromise is made for the best.
I will only add additional oils or butters (besides the drizzle) if I am applying some herbs or flavors to the pasta...otherwise, NO I do not. Although our cooking teams may decide to cook things differently this is my standard.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
We should stand on that rock
At one point we turned onto one of the side streets and there was a median-like structure in the middle of the road, but unlike our well-manicured western medians, it was actually a make-shift dump.
Once we accumulated all of our treasures and had enough hissing sounds and "white girl, white girl I love you!" yelled at us, we decided to venture back to the Ship. We needed to catch a taxi, which seems pretty much impossible. We tried a couple of different places, with our very best taxi catching wave with no success. So then we saw a large rock that we decided was a good idea to stand on so the taxis would see us better and then would definitely decide to stop. Many people just laughed hysterically and kept driving, but one taxi actually stopped and let us in. We got almost to our destination when we figured out that this taxi was being chartered by a woman. When they got to the point in the road where they needed to turn and we needed to go straight we got out and the woman said we didn't have to pay. What a blessing, we made it to the "market" and back to the Ship without even paying for a taxi.
Sunday, March 2, 2008
Culinary Mystery
Here on the ship we have a smaller galley for individuals and families that want to cook their own food. As an inheritance of small tools & devices from the 'cleaning out' of that area I have acquired a kitchen 'tool' that has been a mystery so far... (you can click on the pictures to see them bigger)
I asked (by email) a good friend Bob A Hunger Artist what did he make of the picture I sent him to which he sent out an email requesting the help of several of his food-centric friends. In addition to this, he also posted this on his blog (which by the way gets way more traffic than my site does, by 'food' people at that!), and right away (or at last count) the first original post garnered 28 comments, mostly suggestions and humorous cracks.
Then Stephen The Foodist & Scotty Cooking In Theory & Practice also picked up the story...and later at Scotty's request, I produced another picture for him and Bob that suggests the proper 'right side up' look of the tool.
Stephen went so far as to inquire of the English (can't remember exact office) about the registered number posted on the tool...and we are currently awaiting an answer on that! And for those of you who are curious, this is the only and exact writing on it: REGD 911032 made in England.
So a final answer has not been forthcoming, and I am still enquiring from people here on board the ship since I have at least 30 nationalities represented on board at any one time...
Irritating as it may be (to us) it may be that this tool was really useless or does not work adequately, or maybe it's not even made anymore? Which would explain why none of us know what it is, because we only remember the 'good stuff, the stuff that works. And maybe sometimes the stuff that works so bad or was such a terrible idea that you can't forget it! (laughing)
A big 'thank you' to Bob at A Hunger Artist for kicking things off! As well as The Foodist & Cooking In Theory & Practice for also helping out...BUT we are still looking for an answer out there!
Do you know what it is?
I hope Don can take a joke...
Thinking nothing more about the phone call we completed the meals and later that night I went back to my cabin after work. I noticed a message was left on my cabin phone (because Stephanie hasn't really gotten used to checking or retrieving messages) so I played the message for the both of us. It was really quite simple it was basically a repeat of what Don asked me when he called the kitchen/galley only he probably called our cabin first.
After I played the message I just couldn't stop laughing and Stephanie wanted to know what was wrong with me so I explained...
Stephanie complained and voiced her disapproval of my several various attempts at being funny or informative in recording our message for the answering part of our telephone. It was either too long, crazy, and/or she thought my various attempts were not so funny. So finally I resorted back to a 'saying' that started on the Caribbean Mercy when we showed disapproval for something that we didn't like which is, 'Imakickyahead!' and translated to: I am going to kick your head.
So the phone answering message that Don got was:
Leave a message or Imakickyahead!!!
Don has a sense of humor, but I wonder what he thought about that!
(I am sure Stephanie was proud of me for that one too, NOT!)
Medical Screening Pictures
Caution: Medical Screening involves some graphic pictures and is exhaustive with over 800 low resolution pictures
That being said, I have completed the Screening Album and it is available on our picture page permanently or by clicking this link if you receive this by email subscription -
http://tyroneandstephanie.com/pictures/Screening
Stephanie probably appears in the album 6 to 8 times, and of course I was busy cooking on the ship so you won't see me there...screening day was actually the day before the Liberian President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf came to the ship. And following that day was the pastors conference. And following that day...
You can probably relate some of the pictures to earlier posts and maybe future ones, about patients that Stephanie will directly or indirectly be involved with...and for my part I have probably fed every Mercy Shipper you ever see in any of these pictures (whether they liked the food or not! [laughing]).
Saturday, March 1, 2008
Benjamin
This morning I woke up at 6:58am and was supposed to be at work at 7:00am, I through on some scrubs and ran down stairs. I had to take some deep breaths, I didn't know what I was going to find when I opened the doors of the ICU. The lights were dim and there were 4 Dr.s and one nurse and the captain praying for him before they took him off the Vent. The initial sight was so peaceful, so different from at home in the ER.
At 7:30am Benjamin was gone. Ali and I washed his body and said our goodbyes. I can't express in words the connection that I had with this little boy. I only knew him for a couple days, but when you pour your all into keeping a child alive and comfortable the connections is there. It is so hard to see a child die, to see his father grieve, and see his little body be carried down the corridor in a body bag.
Now as I am in my cabin and trying to process all of this I just thank God for letting me have the time I did with this sweet little boy.








































